I remember the exact place I was standing when my son reached up to hold my hand for the very first time. It was outside in the front garden, right on the path between the front door and the mail box, near the pink camellia bush.
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holding hands
Jul 1st, 2011 by Carla
A writer’s greatest fear is being clichéd.
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tuesday communities
Mar 25th, 2011 by Carla
On Tuesday on Twitter someone tweets that they are having a shit day.
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i’m getting smaller
Jan 8th, 2011 by Carla
chicken soup
Dec 3rd, 2010 by Carla
By the time you’re eighty years old you’ve learned everything. You only have to remember it. – George Burns.
My girl walks proudly on to the stage clutching her trumpet. She beams when she sees me in the audience and does one of those little low wagging of her fingers, a wave just for me. She takes her position up the back, which is disappointing because it’s difficult to see her; she’s a shorty … just like her mum. But I’ll know I’ll hear her—loud and clear. And I know what she is going to play, because I’ve heard her toot it over and over the past few weeks in preparation for the recital.
“Nonno says practice makes perfect,” my girl tells her dad and I one evening after we’d commented about a particularly long and particularly loud session of tooting. As she walks from the room her ponytail swishes, flicking up at us.
We joke about it later, when she is in bed, “Of course he wouldn’t mind all that tooting …” I say. I don’t need to continue, my husband is already laughing, knowing full well how deaf his father has become in recent years.
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woman with a purple knee in repose
Nov 7th, 2010 by Carla
the haves and the have nots
Nov 5th, 2010 by Carla
“Look at life through the windshield … not the rear-view mirror.” – B. Baggett.
beijing roast duck reigns … part four, the final.
Nov 3rd, 2010 by Carla
The clipboard man summons us to the door. We shuffle in under the famous restaurant sign. Qan: meaning perfection, Ju: representing gathering without departing and De: the highest virtue. In combination the name implies a perfect union of moral excellence and benevolence.
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beijing roast duck reigns … part three
Nov 2nd, 2010 by Carla

… read part two here.
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